Sunday, November 21, 2010

Coping With A Job You Hate


Everyone at one time or another find themselves at a job they hate, but can not leave. Either it is a bad time to leave or you have contractual obligations. i.e.: they paid for your education or you took out a 401k hardship loan.

You could be angry and make everyone else angry but let’s not. Instead find a way of diversion from thinking of this place you want to leave but can’t. A few coping exercises can help you make the best of a bad situation.

Find options to avoid the misery of staying at a job that is not the best fit. Keep yourself and those around you in good spirits; although this may take some practice. Search for the right distraction or muse to keep yourself at least somewhat satisfied.

  • A unique special something - Find an item or some peculiar whatever... and leave it at the job. Therefore, you only see that special item while you are at the workplace. Look for an interesting place near your job to visit during lunch breaks. Is there a special coffeehouse? Nice store or park you can look at to rejuvenate during the week.
  • Switch-up environment – Park in a different spot for a change in scenery and walk around spots that make you smile or relax. Find other people to hang out with; someone you think is interesting but haven’t made that friendly gesture yet.
  • Do something - Look into transferring to a different department or position. Make sure it is a good change for you; snoop around and find out about the atmosphere and people. Do some research about wage information; money should not be a surprise.

  • Get some class – Most large companies offer computer, human relations or other classes for free to employees. Take a few classes to learn a new skill or meet new people. If the company pays for college classes, then go for it but don’t forget the fine print. You may need to retain employment upon the company paying for education.

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