To play a game to win you must be clear on your objective and it is not the same for everyone. The long version of this post can be located here, but I will give you some examples below.
- Need someone else to pay for your college - look for employers that pay or provide partial payments for higher education of their employees
- Need good benefits - look for employers that specifically have good vacation, sick days, health insurance packages
Identify the players of the game here (long version).